It is back to school time. Often this time of year triggers stress, frustrations, and worries that we haven’t seen in kids all summer long. With the demands of homework, new teachers, new expectations, learning new information, seeing old friends (and at times not so friendly kids), there are so many stressors children encounter this time of year. However, it is during these transitions that children learn how to manage new situations they encounter, setting up the coping patterns they will use most likely for the rest of their lives. So it is imperative as a parent to help your child learn how to transition through uncertain situations that may be mixed with fear, worry, excitement, and anticipation (among other feelings). This article offers a simple but effective strategy to help your child create healthy ways to cope with new situations, encouraging resilience and resourcefulness.

Life is filled with obstacles and as you become an adult you often encounter situations that throw you off balance. How you manage these adversities are often formed when you were a child and unconsciously you are reacting from the same pattern you did as a child when a new situation arises or when things become overwhelming. If you didn’t have healthy adults in your life modeling how to manage change you may have picked up some unproductive ways cope. Here’s the good thing, you always have an opportunity to change and grow by creating new healthy strategies to meet your needs. In addition, you can teach your children new healthy ways of responding to changes.

Here’s a simple, but effective strategy to help you child when they encounter new challenges. Have your child take out a big piece of paper. On that paper have them draw all the things that they are worried or fearful about. For a younger child it may be a fear that the new teacher may be mean, for a middle school child it may be the fear of finding their classes, for a teenager it could be meeting new friends. Here’s the important part, do not judge or minimize what their worries are. If you make judgmental comments such as, “oh that’s not true”, you do not validate your child’s feelings. When you allow them to embrace their feelings they are more likely to move through the feelings, allowing an opportunity to create new thoughts and feelings around the circumstances. Allow your child to express all their worries and validate their feelings. Then, after you have heard them and allowed them an opportunity for self-expression, ask them to create all the things they could do to overcome the fears, worries and challenges. So if you child draws a picture of a mean kid in school doing something hurtful ask them to create what they could do instead. Allow them the opportunity to get really creative, again it’s not about what you think they should do, but instead allowing them to create their own solutions, however “out there” or silly it may seem. This allows for divergent thinking, essential in developing resilience and creating life long skills for success.

Maintaining a healthy diet is one very important aspect of your dog’s daily lifestyle and if overlooked, can lead to problems down the road. There are a number of strategies that you can make use of to keep your dog’s diet in check and keep their healthy lifestyle on track. This article will discuss a few of those strategies and how each one of the may benefit your dog with regard to their health.

One of the strategies that is often the most underused, but may be one of the most effective is portion control. It is often a common practice for many owners to fill their dog’s bowl full of food in order to not have to fill it again for a longer period of time, perhaps as much as a week. The result is that the dog has a heaping bowl of food sitting in front of them for an extended period of time. This can be troublesome for a number of reasons. One reason this is not a healthy practice is because the dog may be tempted to eat continuously, or overeat, which will in turn cause unwanted weight gain. Another reason this may not be a healthy strategy is because the food is sitting out in the open for an extended period of time, it is more exposed to dirt, dust, and any bacteria or harmful substances that may be present in the area. This can be unhealthy and possibly harmful to the dog. One way to properly control your dog’s eating is to only serve the recommended portion at one time, and then take the bowl away. This will ensure that your dog is not overeating and that their food is safe to eat.

Another strategy that could potentially help in maintaining your dog’s healthy diet is by splitting your dog’s meal into multiple servings. One possibility would be to serve half of the daily portion in the morning, and the other portion of their daily serving in the early evening. This is typically a good practice because it promotes better digestion of the dog’s food, and also allows them more time to generate energy and burn off the after affects of the food that was consumed.

When trying to maintain a healthy diet for your dog, it is important that you remember to stick to one source of food and not feed your dog all kinds of different foods. This helps them keep their digestive process on track. Treats are acceptable once in a while, but not acceptable all of the time. Excess feeding can lead to obesity in your dog regardless of what you’re feeding them. The main thing to keep in mind is that it’s important to stick to one food source and only give treats on occasion.

The moment we are conceived we have needs. The moment we are conceived we begin to develop strategies to get our needs met or cope with not having our needs met. The moment we are conceived our stories begin-the story of our life, the stories we tell ourselves, the stories we are told. I’m not writing this article and you’re not reading this article because all of our needs are met in a healthy way, using healthy strategies and our stories are all loving, compassionate, empathetic and beautiful. I’m writing this and you’re reading this because there is a fundamental disconnect between who we are and who we think we are or told we are.

If I tell you we are all beautiful, we are all equal, we are all loved and we are all loving, you will probably agree or at least mostly agree. However, do we feel it, do we embrace it, do we live it? This is perhaps our greatest challenge-to see the true nature of who we are and truly embrace it. It is possible. It is within our reach. It is the truest reality.

Yet, millions of people tell themselves stories every day, throughout the day that they are not worthy or they are not good enough, or they are not loveable and much more. Why is this? It is this way because the moment we are conceived we begin to feel and/or hear about our value, our worth, our importance. As we grow, we begin to believe stories about ourselves… stories that hurt, stories that feel good, stories that do not meet our fundamental needs and stories that do meet our fundamental needs.

If you are born into a family that showers you with unconditional love both verbally and with physical contact then your needs for love, acceptance, and closeness are going to be met. You will probably develop healthy strategies for meeting these needs like simply showing love to those around you in the same manner they modeled for you. This is an example of a healthy strategy.

If you are born into a family that withholds love then you may develop unhealthy strategies for getting your need for love met or for coping with not having your need for love met, such as doing what your parents want you to do in order to feel their love or attention or drinking to ease the pain of not having your need met. In cases like these, attention is often what is sought because it can feel like an expression of love. For example, she must love me if she gives me attention when I act a certain way. Yet, these unhealthy strategies are built upon an illusion. The illusion being that your behavior affects how the other person feels. These types of strategies can easily turn into life-long patterns of behavior with many different relationships but the lack of completely fulfilling the need for love remains elusive and out of reach and they can lead to wounds and pain. Imagine a young child never experiencing his or her need for love, acceptance, value except when he or she is sexually molested by the parent. It’s a harsh reality. It doesn’t have to be.

This same child may grow into an adult or teenager who uses sex to have his or her needs met for feeling loved. This same child may grow into an adult or teenager telling herself or himself a story that she or he is only worthy when having sex with someone. Yet the pain and wound of a lifetime of conditional love will take its toll and create many more strategies and stories around needs not being met.

The first step to leaving unhealthy strategies and stories is to acknowledge them and accept them without judgment or admonishment or blame. They simply are and they wouldn’t be if you lived a different reality. Think of it like this, if you do judge yourself or admonish yourself or blame others or yourself does it change what is? What is the natural consequence of judging or admonishing yourself? What is the natural consequence of blaming yourself or others? What is the natural consequence of simply accepting things as they are without judgment, admonishment and blaming?

The second step is to allow yourself to feel the pain and feelings surrounding the thoughts that drive the strategies and stories and let them go (I often suggest clients imagine them sent to and burning up in the Sun); i.e. I am only worthy when I have sex with them or they only believe I am worthy if I have sex with them. This step is difficult because it involves feeling the pain associated with the story and strategy and unconscious triggers. The bad news is that at first it is or can be extremely difficult depending upon your life story. The good news is it gets easier each time you do it.

The third step is to consciously choose a new thought such as I am worthy and loveable whether I have sex or not. My worth and lovability isn’t dependent upon someone else or their desires. Each time you replace an unhealthy thought or story with a healthy one you are reprogramming your unconscious triggered reaction with a conscious response. After an indeterminate amount of times, your unconscious triggered reaction will mirror your conscious response.

This process requires being conscious of our triggers. This process is a tool we should keep with us for our entire lives as there is no lack of pain in our world-to pretend there isn’t pain is to invite the pain to live within us and fester.

Remember that the stories and strategies are as different as each person. For example, a child with the same circumstances may use completely different strategies and tell themselves completely different stories such as I am not worthy because my parent has sex with me. As adults, they may withdraw and protect their feelings of not feeling loved by not putting themselves out there. They may abstain from having sex altogether and when they do have it they may experience pain and discomfort and guilt.

Life doesn’t have to be filled with unhealthy strategies and stories and unhealthy unconscious triggered reactions. There is another way. Ask yourself: do I want to live a life where I feel positive and where I feel loved, worthy, validated, like I belong, like I’m part of something? No one can do it for you… you have to take the first step.

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Over lunch the other day your friend mentions that she recently began a fitness program and lost 20 pounds last month. “20 pounds!” you exclaim, “I wish I could lose 20 pounds in a month, but isn’t it unhealthy to lose more than 2 pounds a week and you lost 5 a week?” you ask.

Well, it depends. The generic answer is yes it unhealthy to lose large amounts of weight in a short period of time, but there is more to it. You see weight loss rate (amount/time) is not the same as weight loss method.

Typically over an extended period of time, say 12 months, your weight loss rate will average 2 pounds per week or less. But, this is an average of 52 weeks. So couldn’t you have a month where you lost 20 pounds, especially in the beginning, and 3 months where you only lost 4 pounds? Would this not average out to 2 pounds a week? So how is what happened in month one unhealthy and then considered healthy after 4 months? Add another 8 months of only losing 4 pounds a month to this and you will see that your average drops to almost 1 pound a week.

I think a lot of people have confused weight loss rate with weight loss method. If you are following one of these extreme diet and exercise programs, taking a fat burning pill and losing large amounts of weight, then that is unhealthy. But, if you are following sound nutrition and exercise advice and losing a lot of weight, then that is fine.

However, if you are following a proper nutrition and exercise program and the weight you are losing is muscle rather than fat, this is also bad. If this is the case you need to do one of two things, or both. 1) Increase your daily calorie intake. 2) Decrease your workouts to 3x per week. Losing muscle tissue is not the goal and a loss in muscle tissue will only decrease your metabolism making it harder for you to loss weight down the road.

Extreme low calorie diets result in muscle tissue loss and a slower metabolism, both making it harder to loss weight down the road and later in life. Follow a sound program, focus on losing body fat, and enjoy losing the pounds regardless of how fast they come off. It’s the method that determines whether or not it’s healthy, not the rate.

I guess when you’re out of shape and feeling unhappy with your general appearance its natural to want to lose weight fast. However, sometimes it’s best to curb your enthusiasm and take a safe and healthy approach. You can still lose weight fast and do it naturally:-

1) You should up your intake of fruit and vegetables and perhaps even consider going organic. Even if you hate fruit and veg, can you honestly say you have tried every variety there is? Try some different fruits each day until you find something you like. By going organic you can ensure you get the freshest of ingredients without those horrible preservatives!

2) Cut right back on alcohol, caffeinated drinks and soda. You can still have the odd little treat, but start drinking plenty of water. This will help to flush those harmful toxins out of your body. You could also try drinking green tea, it’s full of antioxidants which is bound to make you feel fresher and more energetic!

3) Cut out all processed foods. So unfortunately no more pizza and burgers. Replace these with good carbohydrates that your body needs to keep its blood sugar levels even. Try brown rice, jacket potatoes and oats. This will give you loads of energy unlike the bloated and lethargic feeling you get after eating junk food.

4) To lose weight fast, safe and naturally you will still need to consume good fats. These good fats are absolutely vital for your health and well-being and can do wonders for your appearance. You will be amazed at how vibrant your hair, nails and skin will look. Try oily fish such as herring, mackerel, salmon and sardines 2 or 3 times a week.

5) My final tip on how to lose weight fast naturally – start eating more lean protein. You will get that immediate feeling of satisfaction and no longer being hungry. Protein will also maintain and help grow your muscle mass, which is absolutely vital to burning fat. You can choose from:-

Beef, chicken without any skin, cottage cheese, eggs, fish, lentils, kidney beans, prawns, turkey and tofu.

I’m sure that’s given you many meal ideas!

At one time heart disease was considered to be a man’s disease. That is no longer the case, as heart disease has become the number one threat to women and a leading cause of death. Since practicing prevention is important in guarding our health in every respect, doesn’t it make sense to implement some strategies now, rather than waiting until you develop a problem?

Inflammation of the cells is a disorder that is frequently associated with the aging process. However because of the western lifestyle, we are seeing more problems associated with inflammation in younger women as well. It is a common denominator in all kinds of chronic conditions and in particular affects the circulatory system. You will see many health news headlines about the problems caused by inflammation and how to prevent it or clear it up if you are already experiencing the effects of it.

Here are some steps that you can implement in your daily life:

1. Begin by making an appointment with your doctor for a physical exam. It’s impossible to know what you will need to change unless you know where you are starting. When you make the appointment, tell them that you want an evaluation of any factors that may be affecting your heart or circulatory health. Be sure to take a complete list of any medications and supplements that you are taking. Also have a written list of your own health history and family history. Even if you have been seeing the same doctor for a while, don’t assume that she/he knows these things. It is important to be your own health advocate.

2. Make a point of reducing your stress, and consider this an ongoing necessary step to guarding your health and preventing heart disease. Stress is a huge factor in causing inflammation! In addition to the fact that we live in stressful times, women playing multiple roles often suffer in particular from attempting to juggle work, family, financial concerns. They are often great at taking care of others, but lousy at good self care! Put yourself on the schedule, and take time for hanging out with friends; self care such as a yoga class, a massage, reading, quiet and contemplation. Learning to meditate will be a great health benefit.

3. Exercise several times a week. If you are not exercising at all, start now. Keep it simple…no need to run a marathon (unless that appeals to you). Go for a walk, and pick up the pace as you are able to. If going to a gym motivates you, then do that. Aerobic activity that increases your heart and respiration level is what you are going for. There are added health benefits for weight training, but start with aerobics for reducing inflammation.

4. Improve your diet by getting Omega 3 fatty acids, which are ALA, EPA and DHA. You can find omega-3 pdf information online that will expand your knowledge about the important health benefits. Dr. Andrew Weil states that these omega-3 fatty acids help to support mental and physical health. In particular EPA supports heart and circulatory health.

You can get more EPA by eating dark, leafy vegetables and algae. Both EPA and DHA are also found in the fatty tissues of cold water, oily fish. Many people are concerned about ingesting contaminates such as mercury with ocean caught and even farm raised fish. If this concerns you, high quality fish oil supplements may be the answer.

According to the American Heart Association, omega-3 maintains healthy blood flow, carrying oxygen and nutrients throughout the body. Research reports show that omega-3 fish oil may benefit you by: slowing the build-up of plagues in the arteries; reducing the incidents of stroke and heart attacks; lowering your blood pressure; reducing triglycerides; reducing arrhythmia or irregular heartbeats; and lessening the chance of sudden cardiac death in people with heart disease.

Fish oil for women is a supplement that just makes sense for those who want to guard against the ravages of inflammation. As you implement these steps to improve your health and your cardiovascular system, consider this efficient and helpful addition to your daily regimen.

One of the most difficult situations for a person who is trying to develop healthy eating habits is eating at a buffet. Whether it is an upscale restaurant or family potluck, the process of making healthy choices and navigating the abundance of food can seem overwhelming. Coupled with the temptations of the sheer volume of enticing food choices may be deeply ingrained habits that have taken the idea of “all you can eat” from mere suggestion to an all-out challenge. It may seem unthinkable to pay the price of the restaurant buffet and not eat until stuffed. Here are seven strategies to help you get through your next buffet experience successfully:

Choose to be successful before you leave home. Willingness and specific planning are necessary building blocks for making healthy food choices. Without a plan, food decisions based on old habits may seem stronger than your good intentions.

Plan your trip through the serving line ahead of time. Decide ahead of time to take one trip through the line. Be aware of the size of plates being used; often they are considerably larger that you would use at home.

Decide on the number of items that you will have. This helps you to bypass some things and really pay attention to your choices. Leave space around your food selections on your plate. Be sure to include some foods that you will truly enjoy. Get out of the all-or-nothing thinking that can leave you feeling frustrated about the whole experience.

Take smaller servings of calorie-dense foods, such as meats, cheeses, and dishes that are likely to contain a lot of fat or sugar. Remember that you are fueling your body, and that while your brain might not be counting the calories, your body always is. Even moderation must be done in moderation!

Sit a distance from the food table, preferably with your back toward it. If the table is out of sight you will be less likely to go back for seconds. If the buffet is a social event and you will be sharing a table, choose to sit with people who will be supportive of your food choices.

Do not spend time thinking about the foods you did not take. Especially if someone sitting close to you is eating one of the items you passed by, make a point of focusing on their company and conversation, not on the contents of their plate.

Eat slowly and enjoy your meal. Congratulate yourself for the good choices that you have made, and savor every morsel. Think about how you good you will feel later knowing that you made healthy choices at the buffet.

It is good to know that more and more people are realizing the importance of staying on one’s normal weight. These people are aware of the health risks posed by being overweight. Losing weight will no doubt include changing your diet. Here are five easy healthy strategies for dieting and weight loss and how to implement them.

Strategy 1: Always eat your healthy breakfast. Never ever skip your breakfast is one of the healthy strategies for dieting and weight loss worth implementing. People on a diet usually commit this mistake. They skip breakfast thinking that it will make them lose weight. What these people do not know is that when you eat a healthy breakfast, it will help improve your metabolism that your body will burn calories and fat faster. Further, by eating healthy breakfast you provide your body with the much needed energy for the day.

Strategy 2: Develop the right mindset in dieting. Another element of healthy strategies for dieting and weight loss is to have right mindset for it. Usually, people on a diet do so to lose their weight to become slim and fit. They focus more on the physical aspect of losing weight. Instead of focusing on becoming slim, try to concentrate on losing weight to become healthy. When you know the risks that are at stake of being overweight and develop the right mindset, you will find it easy to lose weight.

Strategy 3: Healthy strategies for dieting and weight loss consist of eating healthy not eating thin. This is closely related to strategy 2. Most people on a diet deprive themselves of eating to rapidly lose weight. This is not the healthy way to weight loss. You should not allow your body to feel hunger. Instead, you should carefully choose the right food that goes into your body. A good standard is to follow your recommended energy and nutrient intake (RENI) and you’ll never go wrong.

Strategy 4: Regularly exercise for about 20-30 minutes a day. Most people who want to lose weight find it difficult to do so because they skip on one of the other factor that make up the powerful combination-exercise. They think that they will need some rigorous exercise program to be able to lose weight. In healthy strategies for dieting and weight loss, you don’t have to wear yourself out with these strenuous exercises. All you need is a good exercise done daily for a few minutes that make up for the powerful combination of diet + exercise.

Strategy 5: Healthy strategies for dieting and weight loss also deals with monitoring your diet plan and weight loss program. You have to keep track of your progress. There are several tools available for doing so. It can be as simple as a notebook or as complex as sophisticated computer programs. Use them to your advantage.

These are the easy but healthy strategies for dieting and weight loss that will help you get rid of your unwanted gain more permanently. What will you choose-rapid but temporary results, or steady and permanent results? Pick your choice.

If you are thinking of finding some “quick Magic” pill to lose the weight I suggest you don’t do it. First I am going to tell you why NOT and instead I will give you a healthy strategy on how to lose 60 Pounds!

Stay away from “starving diets”! I say this for couple of reasons, first off if you are going to go fasting, and starving your self you are going to do three things. Yes, you will lose some weight, you will slow down your metabolism, and you will deprive your body of healthy nutrition you need to live. Let’s take each one of these and break them in pieces!

You will lose some weight. This is true, however, the weight you do lose you will gain back and probably few extra pounds! The reason for this is when you starve yourself, you are slowing metabolism, so when you go back to eating regularly you will gain the weight back and few extra pounds. And of course, when your body is not getting enough nutrition, you are going to do some major damage to your body!

So what can you do?

First off, to lose the 60 pounds, you have to change the food you eat. NO you do not have to eat the food you hate, you just need to start making some wise changes! Write down everything you eat per day. Take one day, and put it all on paper. Every time you pop something in your mouth, you write it down. Carry a notebook. I bet you will be surprised at how often you put the junk in your mouth.

Next day, take the notebook out. Scratch off all the junk food you ate, and replace that with fruit you like. You will eat instead 1 apple, or grapefruit.

All the drinks you do drink, you replace only with water and it can be some juice, but ONLY if it is freshly squeezed.

In your daily schedule, you have to add 20-30 min. of walking. Even if you work you can do this and don’t tell me otherwise. If you only get 30 min. for lunch, you will take 20 min to walk. During that 20 min. 1 min has to be “jolt” kind of a sprint run, for around 45-60 seconds. And take the remaining 10 to eat your lunch.

Oh, and the meals you have, the once you eat regularly, you will now start eating the same portion 6 times per day, ever 2-3 hours. Calorie shifting diet plan is meal plan that breaks your meals in small portions. And also, you eat to feel satisfied, and do not over eat!

A very wise thing to do before you get started on this plan to lose the 60 pounds, is to do a colon cleanse. This will clear out your body of any toxins, and help you achieve your goal faster!